Author Archives: xiaobei2022

As polyamory, open relationships, and consensual non-monogamy enter the mainstream discourse, they often feel like the last taboos of sex and relationships. How do I know? Take a look at social media comments anytime the topic is discussed: Seems like an excuse to cheat to me. Ladies if your man wants a SIDE PIECE then […]

missionary is fantastic (trust), but sometimes we all want to change it up a bit. And when we do, we reach in our back pocket of sex moves and pull out our experimental material: reverse cowgirl, interesting oral, 69, shower sex…you know, easy things. Not awkward at all,  Except, those ones in particular are actually not easy. […]

It’s healthy to have a naturally wet vagina during sex, but modern girls are often bothered by being too dry. So, Dr. Sex UK offers the following 20 moisturizing tips that will definitely help you have a better sex time! “Keeping the Vagina Moist” Method 1: Reduce Stress “Wetness” is often touted as a sign of […]

Raise your hand if you check any of the following when dating someone new. Their: Instagram astrological sign LinkedIn Venmo history address Just kidding about that last one (kind of), but here’s one more metric to add to your research: their favorite sex position. Honing in on their go-to sex moves isn’t the Magic 8 […]

I’m too up in my head during sex. Sound familiar?  As a Somatic Sexologist, this is the number one complaint I hear from clients. “Somatic” literally means “relating to the body,” and for a culture that so heavily relies on cognition for decision-making, divorcing ourselves from our bodily wisdom – this complaint never surprises me. You […]

we talked about awkward sex – and, what to do when awkward sex happens. But I want to drill down on one point in particular, and that is: how to respond when your partner loses their erection. Erectile dysfunction (ED for short) manifests in one of two ways: either it’s tough for a penis-owner to […]

Can I just tell you how much I love your question? It’s wonderful. Kissing is an art! And, I totally agree with you, that a quality makeout sesh IS the best lead up to oral sex or penetrative sex. So let’s give you some tips. Here’s how to practice tongue kissing – “French kissing,” if […]

You have read countless people, have you ever met an impotent man? Claiming that he is usually a living dragon, but a little tired today, so he can’t do anything, or blame all the guilt on alcohol. No matter how much you try to push the tide, but the other party still can’t stand up… Now I’m […]

Dear Shy Masturbator,  First of all, can I tell you how cool it is that you’re taking steps to work through this? Masturbation is absolutely a form of self-care, but for many (probably most) of us, the message we received as kids was that masturbation was dirty, shameful, or embarrassing. Great news: it’s not!  I’m thinking […]

Many women are not sure whether they have orgasmed, but the feeling of orgasm is different for everyone, so there is no set feeling to prove whether you have orgasm, but more women have never experienced the pleasure of orgasm. , is it possible that the man is too weak? It’s also possible that you haven’t […]

It’s finally summer and we’re vaxxed, waxed, and ready to have sex. Let’s be honest: after the past year, a sexy summer is something we all desperately need. We can go out in public! Hang out with people who aren’t our family members or roommates! And, most importantly, release some of the (sexual) tension we’ve accumulated over […]

In all the discussion of self-love, we would be remiss not to honor a gold standard in masturbatory pleasure. I’m talking about the almighty “rabbit.” The rabbit-style vibrator is one of the most iconic sex toy styles and known for its internal and external stimulation. In this article we will briefly cover what it is, its history […]

Dear Minosey My boyfriend has expressed that he feels it’s unfair that I have so many sex toys when he doesn’t have any, but neither of us knows where to start. Do you have any advice for buying a sex toy for a boyfriend? Or recommendations for sex toys for men? I would love to […]

The secret of sex masters: “The continuous orgasm of the explosion of pleasure depends on…” 8 advanced ways of love to make your bed sheets soaked Have you ever had an orgasm? According to a study by OMGYES Indiana University School of Public Health, about 47 percent of women claim to have had a continuous orgasm. If […]

8 Ways to Amp Up Your Sexting Game So you wanna send a little sugar in your next text message. That’s great! A great sext, just like a great striptease, is all about anticipation. And as the 21st century way to talk dirty, it is—when executed well– super hot. But sexting is also an art form, because […]

“Impotent man” makes you feel miserable?  You must learn 8 self-help positions to stimulate GG to harden!   You have read countless people, have you ever met an impotent man? Claiming that he was usually a living dragon, but was a little tired today, so he couldn’t do anything, or blamed all the guilt on alcohol. No […]

                                                           Massage Your Prostate Hey, you. Yeah, you there – the one who’s heard about prostate play, but haven’t tried it yet. I see you. I know […]

10 Sex Resolutions You’ll Actually Want to Keep Maybe it’s not totally justified, but I think we can all agree that the modern New Year’s resolution gets a bad rap. We pump ourselves up for a couple of days, listing out all the new things we’re going to accomplish, only to be made fun of […]

How to Master Lotus Position Let’s cut right to the chase: are you one for intimate, eye contact-filled, almost-no-physical-space-between-your-two-bodies sex? If that’s the case, allow me to introduce you to lotus: a sex position you may have tried before, even if you didn’t know its name. who gave us the low-down on tantric sex and […]